Dating Advice for Women -How to Catch Him by Never Getting Caught

Have you ever thought of what it takes to make someone want something? It's not a question most women confront head-on. However, it is a question you HAVE to confront if you are in the dating market to find yourself a partner, boyfriend, husband or lover.

Not many among us are born with the true gift of gab, like salespeople have. We cannot effectively sell something, describing its intrinsic value and convincing them that they cannot live without it. You are not an item, either, that can be offered with a free trial or money back guarantee.

Think about a diamond for a moment. What makes a diamond valuable? Are they a dime a dozen? No. They are RARE. Their value lies in the act that they are not easily come by, and therefore, everyone wants one.

The fact is, you ARE a diamond. In order to keep yourself attractive and interesting to men, you have to think of yourself as valuable, rare and sought after. Think about it in terms of some precious item that you just HAD to have. Once you get it - you think it's awesome for a few days, and then over time, it begins to lose interest. You have been satisfied; therefore, you are not making an EFFORT anymore to get it.

Getting what you want snuffs out the attraction of the item. So - think about this in terms of attracting a man. If you give him what he wants, if you let him "catch" you too soon, the thrill of the chase is over, he has you, and the attraction will begin to fade.

If you want to create attraction for a guy, you have to get used to the idea of never being tamed, ensnared, or owned in any way. This is totally counterintuitive for a lot of women, because what we want to say is "I'm yours!" For the sake of attraction, though, you cannot let this happen too early or you will not be his for long.

So how do you DO this? Well, start with the small things. First and foremost - don't have SEX with him until you are SURE a relationship has developed. Keep in mind that for a man - having sex does not mean he loves you or is in a "relationship" with you by any means. So do not give it up until you have what you want from him.

Next, try to leave him wanting more with the little things. The next time you and he are really having a great conversation, end it a little early. Don't wait until it naturally tapers off, cut it off before that. This way, he will be left wanting more - thinking about you and your connection, and anticipating talking to you again.

Another thing that you can do is to not be available when calls. Wait a couple hours to call him back, or if you can stand it, until the next day. You can even carry that over to when he asks you for date. Don't settle for the first date he tells you. If he suggests you go out on Thursday, tell him y9ou are busy that night, but how about Saturday instead? Do you see what I mean here?

Scarcity adds value - and you are a valuable treasure. The great thing is, these tactics can be used to attract a man in the beginning, but they can also be used to keep the attraction in the relationship alive and blooming after the newness has worn off.

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