Female Stimulation of the `Oral' Kind

Oral lovemaking is probably one of the hottest things you can do for your lover to sexually stimulate her. In fact, most women confess that not only do they get wet faster through oral lovemaking, but most swear it's the only way they get to reach their own climax! So how do you plan for and prepare for a night of oral loving?

Oral Lovemaking - Female Stimulation of the Best Kind

Tonight, make it all about her. Let her know you appreciate her and that you're going to show this by loving her the best way you can... down there.

Begin slow. As in most things truly sexy and erotic, going straight for the kill is not the way to go. Instead, sexually torment her a bit by going slow, excruciatingly slow. Start by kissing your way down her body, teasing her thighs and buttocks for a while before making contact with any part of her genitalia. The idea behind this is to get her turned on, and for her to hold her breath in sweet anticipation.

Warm her up. Don't be in a hurry to show her your oral talents. Start by slowly breathing hot air against her genitalia. You could alternate this with kissing her thighs or suing your hands to stroke other parts of her body.

From the outside, going in. The rule is to (yes, slowly) work your way from the outside of her genitalia. You could start by slowly licking the edges of her outer labia, and then slowly move towards her inner labia, and then around her sweet spot. Doing this slow is sure to drive her wild and make her desire something more intense.

At this point, you can flatten your tongue like a dog's tongue and simply lavish long, flat licks all over her genital lips. Make your strokes long like a grown up dog showing its master affection. Alternate this with puppy-like licking, which is basically characterized by small, short frantic licks. Whatever you do, try staying off the clitoris for as long as you can.

How to treat the C-spot. Begin your stimulation of the clitoris gently. First, just focus on her clitoral hood (i.e., the fold of skin that covers and surrounds the clitoris in an almost inverted V shape). While on the clitoris, there are several great things you could do with your tongue.

For one, you can try spelling the alphabet with your tongue, treating her C-spot like a board slate. You could also play the write and guess game where you write a letter and she guesses.
Now or later? At this point, she is probably already writhing from the oral stimulation. You may want to ease off at this point if you want to tease her and make her last longer, or you can opt to push her over the edge.

If you opt for the latter, here are some things you can do.

Try to `trap' her clitoris between your lips and then use your tongue to make frantic licks on it. Release the clitoris and then, using your tongue again, draw circles around the engorged spot. Be creative using your nose and chin too!

Stay sensitive. Even though you're busy down there, it's important to be sensitive or attentive to every sound and body movement. You need to stay sensitive to her needs because that's the only way you can tell which of your oral stimulations are working best. If you get the hint that she likes something in particular, keep repeating it until she can't take it anymore.

Should you use your fingers or not? Depending on how far your lover is, oral stimulation alone may already be enough to make her reach her climax. If she's not there yet, you may want to bring her to the `next level' by using one or two of your fingers. From here you can decide to whether use your finger(s) to simulate intercourse, or try and find her G-spot to induce a G-spot orgasm. At some point, you may even combine this with the oral techniques suggested above.

If you want to simulate intercourse without using your finger, you can revert to this oral technique. Roll your tongue like a cylinder and try to penetrate as deep as you can using just your tongue.

Either way, whatever combination, I'm sure your lover will appreciate it!

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Gabrielle Moore is the co-author of The Female Ejaculation Mastery. It is a step-by-step guide to teach men about female ejaculation. For more information, go to: www.femaleorgasmrevealed.com/female-ejaculation.html